Sunday, March 16, 2008

Breakup DO's and DONT's

As I was listening to some people talk today I overheard a break up and thought wow now thats the worst way to break it off. So I've compiled alist of the do's and do not's when it comes to ending your relationship.

Do Not's

  • Over the phone.
    Breaking up with someone over the phone has to be one of the worst. Not only does it leave you looking like a coward, it's just not right for the person on the other end. Really, How would you feel if you were broken up with over the phone?
  • It's not you it's me.
    Face it! If you are the one ending the relationship then it IS you and NOT them. Step up to the plate! Don't try to sugar coat it!
  • We can still be friends.
    Yes, I know sometimes when a relationship ends you do stay friends. But come on.. Who wants to hear "We can still be friends" when you're in the middle of ending the relationship. It's just rude. You can't break their heart and mend it at the same time!

DO's

  • Face to Face.
    Face to face is the best way to break it off. For one it shows you aren't a coward. If you are breaking up with someone atleast have the decency to tell them in person!
  • Be Straight.
    Once again, you can't break their heart and mend it to. Don't sugar coat things just tell them straight up and don't lie. It will only hurt them worse.

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